Cooling-off periods that actually work
If a chat gets heated and tempers rise, it is okay to take a short break. This is called a cooling-off period. Here are ways to use this time:
- Tell your partner you need a minute to calm down
- Decide together when to talk again (like after dinner)
- Use the break to breathe and do something you enjoy
- Think about your own feelings, not just your partner’s actions
Simple cooling-off times can make a huge difference for both people.
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