Understanding the Root Cause Before Finding the Solution
There are no two divorces that ever happen for the same reason. In distance lies a depth. There are also layers of emotion and spirituality in every situation, too. To get to the truth, the source is important. There are some subtle ways that every relationship plays out over the course of time.
- Personal factors — stress, past experiences and pressure determine the way you interact with others daily.
- Timing: There are times when two people meet or when they avoid meeting each other, at the wrong time in life.
- Compatibility – there is a rift between values and expectations, which gradually escalates.
- Communication patterns – how the words are said can be more important than what they say.
- When one person is not heard, the whole relationship becomes strained; it is an emotional imbalance.
Knowing this can help you to eliminate the blame game with yourself or your partner. The true and complete picture starts to make itself clear to you. The first and foremost thing is clarity, and then actual solutions when you have clarity about the roots.